Founder
Tracey McMillan.
I'm probably not the lawyer you were expecting.
I call a spade a spade and an arsehole an arsehole.
That's not everyone's cup of tea.
I won't tell you everything will be okay.
I won't tell you what you want to hear.
I'll tell you the truth.
Sometimes that's uncomfortable.
It's also what gets people through Family Court.
I'm not an accredited specialist. I don't use that word, and the regulator wouldn't let me if I tried. I just have three decades of doing this work. That's enough.

Why Forge exists
I've spent thirty years watching good men walk into Family Court blind. I couldn't change the system. But I could build something that helps men navigate it.
That's why I created Forge.
If you believe every father deserves to understand the rules before they pay the price for not knowing them…
Share Forge.
One conversation could change someone's future.
The record
Things that are true, on paper.
- 01Bachelor of Laws · Bar Practice Course
- 02Admitted as a barrister, 2001 · admitted to the High Court of Australia, 2001
- 03Admitted to practice in Queensland (2001) and New South Wales (2005)
- 04More than thirty years in the law, practising predominantly in family law
- 05Nationally Accredited Mediator · one of fifteen accredited Parental Coordinators in Australia
- 06Author, Divorce Is F*cked (2025)
- 07Founder & CEO, Forge (Queensland Law Practice)
The ecosystem
One body of work, four front doors.
Forge is the legal practice. The book, the speaking, and the podcasts are how the same work reaches men who aren't ready for a lawyer yet, and a few who never will be.
01 · Read
Divorce Is F*cked
The book. Ten frameworks, no padding. First three chapters free.
Get the book →02 · Watch
Speaking
Keynotes, panels, half-day workshops. International.
See the dates →03 · Listen
On podcasts
Broken Fathers, ABC. Same material, different rooms.
Find the episodes →04 · Engage
Forge
Australia-wide legal practice for men in separation.
Book a strategy call →The team
Tracey-led, never Tracey-only.